A friend told me true is when you understand what unconditional love is. Like how your parents love you. Along with your weaknesses, your true love still stays by you. Like how any parent would do and that is very rare. However, I feel a parent even takes whatever their children give them not wanting anything more or anything less. There is only love to exchange and nothing else. Once you get someone in your life and you like that person then you should make things happen around that person and make it work. If you cannot do that then that person was never yours and will never be yours. Think about it, what you want and what you have, are two different things. You would not get something after you leave it.
It is as if you want to catch a train. The train would come and go at its own timings. You have to be at that time there at the station to catch the train. STOP! Stop thinking and reacting. It is very simple to say follow your heart and not your mind. Can you follow your heart and dance in a meeting if you feel like it. The answer is a big NO. So why put yourself into a mode where there is no returning. You can hurt yourself it is your will, but do not let someone else hurt you. You can be a bigger person and forgive. You definitely should also. Make a list at what cost. Ask yourself how important it is for you, to be with that person. What are you ready to sacrifice? Will it make any difference in the other person’s life? Would you be able to face your own self? You can do this today as you know what you are getting into but what happens in the coming years. Why put yourself into a situation that can be easily avoided for a better future. You will be proud of yourself one day. You need not wait for that day, as today is that day. Live for today as tomorrow is something we have not seen but are only preparing for. When you put yourself into a problematic situation, remember one thing you put your whole family and friends into it.
The biggest question is suddenly why does the love from your parents, sister, brother, pet becomes less and you crave for superficial love. This superficial love takes over and how. Before you can realize it, you are in a car that has no breakers. This car is on a road named Self Pity. In no time, self-pity turns into self-destruction. So ask yourself, why am I doing this? What would I get in return? Moreover, do I deserve this? Being disheartened does not get you anywhere. Think of it this way the other person was okay doing what he or she did and you on the other did whatever you could. So why feel bad now. Everything comes with an expiry date. It is like when we like a chocolate we keep it in the fridge to eat it later. However, it would be spoiled after a particular date. Even if you eat it right away, how long would you keep eating it? You have to stop somewhere and it is the same with relationships. You should not feel low or sad it did not last. Feel good you still have a longing to achieve love. Overcome defect but not love.