Dream Job Think again!!!

What happens when you don’t land your dream job? Does the dream job translate into your passion? Does the road block seem to be the end of your dream? Why is it important to know what you want and what you have are two different things in life? There are good amount of people who have these questions which are unanswered not because they these are unreasonable questions but because no one ever finds out the answer for these. When I set myself in market to find my dream job I realized I had to work hard towards it. Working hard doesn’t mean getting your dream job but after ten long years I realized my dream job was not and will never be my passion. One has to work towards achieving their goal but changing your goal when required doesn’t mean you did try hard it just means you tried smart. Being a hard worker and a smart worker are two different things

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Today I might love a certain trend tomorrow I might not. Same is with a job. If you are not satisfied with your job dint give up on your job which was once your dream jobs rather develop a passion which gives you more satisfaction and the job can be treated as a source of income which is also (only) important and will also help you follow your passion. Why give up on people or yourself or your job. We all need each other and we all need that job. Yes it’s true we need that one job to support us. End of the day what matters is that one job. There would be people around telling you things, oh you can do better than this, it’s not for you, to belong somewhere else, you are better off without this, go ahead follow your dreams and stuff like that. Will these people support you while you struggle to find the place you truly belong to? The best thing is making it work around things. People tell you things like that because they like you and love your ways and are kind with compliments towards you. Love them; respect them as they would be the first ones to correct you as well. As I said we all need each other and that job. If it pays your rent and bill, live with it. Deal with it you are here and it is happening now. Don’t miss the bus because you don’t feel it is good enough for you. Love your life and it will love you back. Love your job and it will do justices to you. Don’t get carried away. Rather carry it away from you. Develop a passion it will stay with you forever. Run if you want to, dance if you can, sing if you have it in you and love yourself to be loved back. I don’t write blogs to be read I write to be appreciated for the passion I put behind it and inspire myself when people get inspired by the writings. It is a beautiful feeling to be loved and liked; we all crave for the same but again how expressive are we to love and like others. Some other time on that. Bottom-line is following something you are passionate about,  Follow your dreams is a pass. It is help me to help you, love me to love you. Be the light to someone you always wanted for yourself.

Shine together and grow together.

“The Inner Voice”

If you be honest, they will prove you wrong…
If you stand up for yourself, they will ignore you…
If you act as a victim, they will be happy and be with you…
Once they know they have crushed your spirit then they are done with you…

So the best thing to do is just come up with a plan that suites you the best and not what suites people around you. As you have to deal with whatever happens in your life Alone. Yes your family n friends are out there in support of you but it is you who have to deal with the demons inside you. The voice that talks to you and tells you off even if you do not want to hear it. Often we meet people who tell us what we want to hear and we are happy but the voice inside us always knows and tells us off. 
Be with that voice, it knows the best for us. 

The inner voice is like a vase, it keeps taking whatever you put inside and returning only the best. 
(on my travel to Singapore I came across this Vase on Orchard Road and that’s how this blog came to me as a voice from within)

 

Remember always “Do what suites you the best and leave the rest to the inner voice”

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Moon for Stars…Stars for whom???

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When I look at the moon,

It looks bright.

It shines all night.

It gives light.

I can see so many stars around it.

All of them shining,

All of them bright,

All of them around it all night,

However, none of them with it.

The moon shines and goes by

The stars take all the brightness.

Just like that, the moon comes back.

Shining, smiling and giving light,

Stars never shine without the moon

Still they do not stay always with the moon.

This is life you give and give

People around you take and only take.

You may go and never come back

Until just like the moon shines for the stars to shine…

“Management for Beginners (Tips)”

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  • 1. Management for beginners…
  • 2. students
  • 3. You need a lot of dedication There are few key words to follow….
  • 4. — Focus— Hard Work— Research— Lots of reference— Reading— Knowing how to utilize your time. Few pointers to remember…
  • 5. — Focus and hard work go hand in hand. One can never forget the fact that you need to remember what u never to achieve . Always know there’s a difference between, what you want and how badly you want it. Focus and Hard Work…
  • 6. — You need to know what you are looking for and where are you looking for it. You might know the matter you want to look for but not know where to look for. Google, Wikipedia, Slideshare.net…. Are one of those sites which can get you quick info at your finger tips.Research
  • 7. — Talk to your friends who are already under going the management course. Ask for tips and pointers. While working on an assignment always keep it in mind, you have to live the matter and feel it. You would be half done with your studies only by talking about it. Discuss with your friends the difficulties you are facing and ask them about the ones they faced.Lots of Reference
  • 8. — Reading never hurt anyone. If you like reading books and novels, take the subject like an interesting book that you are reading. If you have being working and doing your management try to relate everything to the subject you are reading. Once you get use to the reading of the subject like a book. You would start enjoying it for sure…Reading
  • 9. — Time management is the best tool. While you are working always remember each and every situation is teaching you something different. You learn while you earn. Co relate things and you are always teaching yourself something new from what you have read before. Life is the best example to follow.Knowing how to utilize your time…
  • 10. acknowledgement I would like to thank my dear friend Leisha Changrani for supporting me with the whole process of my course. It’s the beginning for me and I look forward for more and more in depth knowledge and guidance for the same.

Beyond Truth…

                                   A friend told me true love is when you understand what unconditional love is. Like how your parents love you. Along with your weaknesses, your true love still stays by you. Like how any parent would do and that is very rare. However, I feel a parent even takes whatever their children give them not wanting anything more or anything less. There is only love to exchange and nothing else. Once you get someone in your life and you like that person then you should make things happen around that person and make it work. If you cannot do that then that person was never yours and will never be yours. Think about it, what you want and what you have, are two different things. You would not get something after you leave it.

                                It is as if you want to catch a train. The train would come and go at its own timings. You have to be at that time there at the station to catch the train. STOP! Stop thinking and reacting. It is very simple to say follow your heart and not your mind. Can you follow your heart and dance in a meeting if you feel like it. The answer is a big NO. So why put yourself into a mode where there is no returning. You can hurt yourself it is your will, but do not let someone else hurt you. You can be a bigger person and forgive. You definitely should also. Make a list at what cost. Ask yourself how important it is for you, to be with that person. What are you ready to sacrifice? Will it make any difference in the other person’s life? Would you be able to face your own self? You can do this today as you know what you are getting into but what happens in the coming years. Why put yourself into a situation that can be easily avoided for a better future. You will be proud of yourself one day. You need not wait for that day, as today is that day. Live for today as tomorrow is something we have not seen but are only preparing for. When you put yourself into a problematic situation, remember one thing you put your whole family and friends into it.

                            The biggest question is suddenly why does the love from your parents, sister, brother, pet becomes less and you crave for superficial love. This superficial love takes over and how. Before you can realize it, you are in a car that has no breakers. This car is on a road named Self Pity. In no time, self-pity turns into self-destruction. So ask yourself, why am I doing this? What would I get in return? Moreover, do I deserve this? Being disheartened does not get you anywhere. Think of it this way the other person was okay doing what he or she did and you on the other did whatever you could. So why feel bad now. Everything comes with an expiry date. It is like when we like a chocolate we keep it in the fridge to eat it later. However, it would be spoiled after a particular date. Even if you eat it right away, how long would you keep eating it? You have to stop somewhere and it is the same with relationships. You should not feel low or sad it did not last. Feel good you still have a longing to achieve love. Overcome defect but not love. Only when you truly love yourself will love follow you. As it is there but we do not want it. We are actually scared of being loved completely. Since, we still want to discover what we can get. Nothing is more and nothing is less. We are just looking for equilibrium.  So relax and move ahead. See what you missed and locate what you did not do in the first place. Life will surprise you and at the same time try to avoid surprising yourself. Do something that you never did. Do something for someone who needs. Show love around. Smile at someone who is a stranger to you at the same time sees you every day. 

 

                           

Return Gift…

There is so much love around us but we are busy looking for it. When was the last time you spoke to someone, without any reason. Smiled at someone, without any reason. Waved at someone, without any reason. Well, don’t sweat it out thinking. Just start from now. Life is too short agreed but it is beautiful too… Just offer a sip of water from your water bottle the next time you see someone thirsty and automatically you would get a smile in return. If you see two people struggling to click a picture of themselves offer to take a snap for them. You don’t need to go out of your way to be nice however, being pleasant is the word and would work wonders. Nature gives us so much, just return something to the universe. This would be your return gift to the world.Image